1 year after surgery

I'm having a hard time believing that it has been an entire year since I was in surgery. When I finally realized the date and looked at the time it was about 2:30 and I was thinking- wow 1 year ago they were just really getting started. And at this time I was just starting to wake up from anesthesia.

This anniversary has been even harder on me than my "cancerversary" because it sets up all the rest of the anniversaries I have to hit in the next couple months. Before surgery everyone was thinking I would have stage I cancer and maybe have to do chemo. After surgery it all turned out so much worse that I ever could have imagined. I remember the nurse in pre-op asking me if I took some meds before I got there to calm me down because I was so calm before surgery. I didn't but I knew I was calm because I just needed to get the cancer out of me.

I struggle every day still with why this is happening to me. I'm not sure if everyone goes through this when they get a life threatening disease or go through a life threatening experience but its one of the hardest parts of dealing with it. I have so much anger to deal with that I'm not sure will ever go away and I hate it. I am so angry about what happened to me but I also get so angry every time I hear about someone else my age, or younger, who has to go through this.

I don't have cancer anymore but I still have to deal with the after effects of it. Every single day. I have to see all the scars that I have. From my port, my drains, my mastectomy. I have to take a pill every single day before I go to bed. I've never regretted or second guessed myself for having a bilateral mastectomy. I think its one of the best decisions I've made in my life. But I hate that I ever had to consider it.

The next couple months are going to be filled with a lot of appointments. I have a 6 month check up next week, plastic surgeon check up in November/December and then surgery in January, surgeon yearly check up in March and radiation oncologist check up in May. Luckily, if you can believe it, those are spaced out! Cancer doctors talk a lot about patients which is a good thing!

It was really nice to be able to go on vacation and not have to think about having surgery! That made this years vacation much more relaxing! I'll blog about vacation in the next couple of days. And by Saturday we should have everything mailed out from the fundraiser! (I know the fundraiser was a month ago but I kept the online fundraiser going for a couple extra weeks and then had to wait for the check). I'm so excited to share the totals with you soon!